touching your friend’s neck the way John grabs Sherlock neck several times in TSOT is gay. try it . just try it. your friend will think you are In Love . you’re about to make that friendship Confusing. try it
if S4 John had walked into the computer room in the gay pilot, pilot!sherlock’s first reaction would have been to spill the coffee in his lap and blurt out, “hi i’m william but my friends call me sherlock i’m a bottom hello”